A man and a fork from my good friend Mel Bryan.
Man and a ForkThere was a young man who had been diagnosed with a terminal illness
and had been given three months to live. So as he was getting hi
things ‘in order,’ he contacted his Priest and had him come to his
house to discuss certain aspects of his final wishes.He told him which songs he wanted sung at the service, what scriptures
he would like read, and what outfit he wanted to be buried in.Everything was in order and the Priest was preparing to leave when the
young man suddenly rememberedsomething very important to him.‘There’s one more thing,’ he said excitedly..
‘What’s that?’ came the Priest’s reply.
‘This is very important,’ the young man continued.
‘I want to be buried with a fork in my right hand.’
The Priest stood looking at the young man, not knowing quite what to
say.That surprises you, doesn’t it?’ the young man asked.
‘Well, to be honest, I’m puzzled by the request,’ said the Priest.
The young man explained. ‘My grandmother once told me this story, and
from that time on I have always tried to pass along its message to
those I love and those who are in need of encouragement.In all my years of attending socials
and dinners, I always remember that when the dishes of the main course
were being cleared, someone would inevitably lean over and say,‘Keep your fork.
‘ It was my favorite part because I knew that something better was
coming … like velvety chocolate cake or deep-dish apple pie.Something wonderful, and with substance!’
So, I just want people to see me there in that casket with a fork in
my hand and I want them to wonder ‘What’s with the fork?’Then I want you to tell them:
‘Keep your fork … the best is yet to come.’
The Priest’s eyes welled up with tears of joy as he hugged the young
man good-bye. He knew this would be one of the last times he would
see him before his death.But he also knew that the young man had a better grasp of heaven than
he did. He had a better grasp of what heaven would be like than many
people twice his age, with twice as much experience and knowledge.He KNEW that something better was coming.
At the funeral people were walking by the young man’s casket and they
saw the suit he was wearing and the fork placed in his right hand.
Over and over, the Priest heard the question, ‘What’s with the fork?’
And over and over he smiled.During his message, the Priest told the people of the conversation he
had with the young man shortly before he died. He also told them about
the fork and about what it symbolized to him.He told the people how he could not stop thinking about the fork and
told them that they probably would not be able to stop thinking about
it either.He was right. So the next time you reach down for your fork let it
remind you, ever so gently, that the best is yet to comeFriends are a very rare jewel, indeed.
They make you smile and encourage you to succeed.
Cherish the time you have,and the memories you share. Being friends
with someone is not an opportunity, but a sweet responsibility.Send this to everyone you consider a FRIEND… and I’ll bet this will
be an Email they do remember, every time they pick up a fork!And just remember … keep your fork!
The BEST is yet to come!