{"id":1119544,"date":"2019-06-05T14:26:34","date_gmt":"2019-06-05T14:26:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dailyreckoning.com\/?p=107477"},"modified":"2019-06-05T14:26:34","modified_gmt":"2019-06-05T14:26:34","slug":"4-steps-to-break-any-bad-habit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/juniorminingnews.com\/?p=1119544","title":{"rendered":"4 Steps to Break ANY Bad Habit"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This post <a rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/dailyreckoning.com\/4-steps-to-break-any-bad-habit\/\">4 Steps to Break ANY Bad Habit<\/a> appeared first on <a rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/dailyreckoning.com\/\">Daily Reckoning<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">When you\u2019re in the checkout line, what goes through your mind?<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Do you think about how much available credit you have on each of your cards, then choose the one with the smallest debt? <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Do you think about the value of the product you\u2019re about to buy versus the opportunity cost of using those dollars elsewhere? <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Or do you simply pull out whatever card is closest in your wallet, and spend? <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">The choices we make each day may seem like well-thought out decisions, but they\u2019re not. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">They\u2019re habits. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">And if you\u2019ve been noticing a downward trend in your bank account (or upward on your credit) lately, look no further than your daily routines. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">In Charles Duhigg\u2019s bestselling book <i>The Power of Habit<\/i>, he outlines the habit loop \u2014 how good and bad habits are made and broken. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">While writing the book, Duhigg became hyper aware of some of his own habits, including buying chocolate chip cookies every weekday at the same time. This routine demonstrated how easy it is to slip into a routine of spending with no intentions.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Duhigg wrote about his experience and explained in detail how he broke free from this bad habit. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Today I\u2019m going to share with you Duhigg\u2019s secret to breaking bad spending habits. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">To break any bad habit you must follow Duhigg\u2019s four rules: <\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>Rule One: You Must Identify Your Habits<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><i>To figure out how you spend, you have to identify your spending habits \u2014 the cues and routines and rewards \u2014 that drive how you handle money.<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><i>As an example, let&#8217;s say you have a bad habit, like I did when I started researching my book, The Power of Habit, of going to the cafeteria and buying a chocolate chip cookie every afternoon. <\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><i>How do you start diagnosing and then changing this behavior? <\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><i>By figuring out the habit loop. And the first step is to identify the routine. In this cookie scenario \u2014 as with most habits \u2014 the routine is the most obvious aspect: it&#8217;s the behavior you want to change.<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><i>My routine was that I got up from my desk every afternoon, walked to the cafeteria, and bought a chocolate chip cookie and ate it while chatting with friends. So that&#8217;s what I put into the loop.<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Spending money on fast food is no different. You might drive by a fast food restaurant on your way home from work and start to feel hungry. Next thing you know you\u2019re skipping cooking and heading for the drive thru.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><i>To take control over these habits, you have to identify them. And to do that, you need to look for patterns in your spending. Download your credit card data and ask yourself:<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<ul class=\"ul1\">\n<li class=\"li1\"><i><\/i><span class=\"s1\"><i>When do you spend? Is it more often on weekdays or weekends? Mornings or afternoons?<\/i><\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><i><\/i><span class=\"s1\"><i>Do you make a few big purchases or a lot of small ones?<\/i><\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><i><\/i><span class=\"s1\"><i>Do you spend more when you are with your friends or alone?<\/i><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><i>It won&#8217;t take long to find some basic patterns \u2014 and those patterns will highlight the routines that shape your financial life.<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><i>Next, some less obvious questions: What&#8217;s the cue for this routine? Is it boredom? Genuine needs like food and rent? Do you spend to socialize or entertain yourself on your own? Do you crave the things you buy, or the shopping experience itself?<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><i>To diagnose my cookie habit, I had to ask myself some similar questions. Was I eating because I wanted the cookie itself? A temporary distraction? Or the burst of energy that comes from that blast of sugar?<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">To figure this out, you need to experiment. <\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>Rule Two: Look for Rewards<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><i>Rewards are powerful because they satisfy cravings. But we&#8217;re often not conscious of the cravings that drive our behaviors.<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><i>To figure out which cravings are driving particular habits, it&#8217;s useful to experiment with different rewards. <\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><i>If we\u2019re trying to change a cookie habit, I would suggest that on the first day of your experiment, when you felt the urge to go to the cafeteria and buy a cookie, you should adjust your routine so it delivers a different reward. <\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><i>Go outside, for instance, and walk around the block, and then go back to your desk without eating anything. The next day, go to the cafeteria and buy a donut, or a candy bar, and eat it at your desk. The next day, go to the cafeteria, buy an apple, and eat it while chatting with your friends. Then, try a cup of coffee.<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">The idea here is you need to experiment with different rewards to figure out what you\u2019re actually craving. Your spending habits are the same way: when you would normally spend, experiment by doing something else. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">For example, instead of buying an expensive drink at Starbucks, buy a bottle of water instead. The following day, go for a walk and don\u2019t buy anything. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><i>By experimenting with different rewards, you can isolate what you are actually craving, which is essential in redesigning the habit. In my case, when I went to a colleague&#8217;s desk to gossip for a few moments, I found the cookie urge disappeared. What I was really craving, I realized, wasn&#8217;t cookies, but socialization. That was my habit&#8217;s real reward. <\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>Rule Three: Isolate the Cue<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><i>Experiments have shown that almost all habitual cues fit into one of five categories:<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<ul class=\"ul1\">\n<li class=\"li1\"><i><\/i><span class=\"s1\"><i>Location<\/i><\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><i><\/i><span class=\"s1\"><i>Time<\/i><\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><i><\/i><span class=\"s1\"><i>Emotional State<\/i><\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><i><\/i><span class=\"s1\"><i>Other People<\/i><\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><i><\/i><span class=\"s1\"><i>Immediately preceding action<\/i><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><i>So, if you&#8217;re trying to figure out the cue for the \u2018going to the cafeteria and buying a chocolate chip cookie&#8217; habit, you write down five things the moment the urge hits (these are my actual notes from when I was trying to diagnose my habit):<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<ul class=\"ul1\">\n<li class=\"li1\"><i><\/i><span class=\"s1\"><i>Where are you? (sitting at my desk)<\/i><\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><i><\/i><span class=\"s1\"><i>What time is it? (3:36 pm)<\/i><\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><i><\/i><span class=\"s1\"><i>What&#8217;s your emotional state? (bored)<\/i><\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><i><\/i><span class=\"s1\"><i>Who else is around? (no one)<\/i><\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><i><\/i><span class=\"s1\"><i>What action preceded the urge? (answered an email)<\/i><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><i>After just a few days, it was pretty clear which cue was triggering my cookie habit \u2014 I felt an urge to get a snack at a certain time of day. The habit, I had figured out, was triggered between 3:00 and 4:00.<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">The same logic can be applied to your spending habits. Write down your answers to the five questions to figure out your habit\u2019s pattern. <\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>Rule Four: Have a Plan<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><i>Once you&#8217;ve figured out your habit loop \u2014 you&#8217;ve identified the reward driving your behavior, the cue triggering it, and the routine itself \u2014 you can begin to shift the behavior. <\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><i>You can change to a better routine by planning for the cue, and choosing a behavior that delivers the reward you are craving. What you need is a plan.<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Your plan should look something like this according to Duhigg: <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><i>When I see CUE, I will do ROUTINE in order to get a REWARD.<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">The cookie habit plan looks like this: <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><i>At 3:30 every day, I will walk to a friend\u2019s desk and talk for 10 minutes. <\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><i>It didn&#8217;t work immediately. But, eventually, it got be automatic. Now, at about 3:30 everyday, I absentmindedly stand up, look around for someone to talk to, spend 10 minutes gossiping, and then go back to my desk. It occurs almost without me thinking about it. It has become a habit.<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Your habits are automatic for good reason. If you had to think about every little thing you do before you do it, your brain would be exhausted. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">But don\u2019t let your brain\u2019s natural shortcuts get taken advantage of. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Give yourself a spending habit audit and follow Duhigg\u2019s four rules to break bad spending habits.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>To a richer life,<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"align-none\" src=\"https:\/\/duip7hn7nchpo.cloudfront.net\/signature-nilus-mattive.png\" alt=\"Nilus Mattive\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Nilus Mattive<br \/>\nEditor, <i>The Rich Life Roadmap<\/i><\/p>\n<p>The post <a rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/dailyreckoning.com\/4-steps-to-break-any-bad-habit\/\">4 Steps to Break ANY Bad Habit<\/a> appeared first on <a rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/dailyreckoning.com\/\">Daily Reckoning<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This post <a rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/dailyreckoning.com\/4-steps-to-break-any-bad-habit\/\">4 Steps to Break ANY Bad Habit<\/a> appeared first on <a rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/dailyreckoning.com\/\">Daily Reckoning<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>The choices we make each day may seem like well-thought out decisions, but they&rsquo;re not. They&rsquo;re habits. And if you&rsquo;ve been noticing a downward trend in your bank account (or upward on your credit) lately, look no further than your daily routines.<\/p>\n<p>The post <a rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/dailyreckoning.com\/4-steps-to-break-any-bad-habit\/\">4 Steps to Break ANY Bad Habit<\/a> appeared first on <a rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/dailyreckoning.com\/\">Daily Reckoning<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":55,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[2811,366,2812,488,490,1311,923],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/juniorminingnews.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1119544"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/juniorminingnews.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/juniorminingnews.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/juniorminingnews.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/55"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/juniorminingnews.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1119544"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/juniorminingnews.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1119544\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1119545,"href":"https:\/\/juniorminingnews.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1119544\/revisions\/1119545"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/juniorminingnews.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1119544"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/juniorminingnews.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1119544"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/juniorminingnews.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1119544"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}