{"id":1109875,"date":"2019-04-09T14:47:59","date_gmt":"2019-04-09T14:47:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dailyreckoning.com\/?p=107139"},"modified":"2019-04-09T14:47:59","modified_gmt":"2019-04-09T14:47:59","slug":"5-steps-to-cutting-the-parental-welfare-cord","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/juniorminingnews.com\/?p=1109875","title":{"rendered":"5 Steps to Cutting the Parental Welfare Cord"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This post <a rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/dailyreckoning.com\/5-steps-to-cutting-the-parental-welfare-cord\/\">5 Steps to Cutting the Parental Welfare Cord<\/a> appeared first on <a rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/dailyreckoning.com\/\">Daily Reckoning<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Are you among the almost 80% of parents who provide some financial support to adult children? The amount is a mind-blowing $500 BILLION a year, which is twice what parents put away for retirement. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">In other words, you may be placing your kids\u2019 interest ahead of your own. And that makes it one the biggest threats to your retirement. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Plus it could rob them of the experience of learning what it means to struggle and become financially independent. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">So what\u2019s behind this trend of boomer and Gen X parents supporting their adult kids?<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>Millennials Failing to Launch<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Many millennials (those born 1981-1996) can\u2019t get their careers and lives off the ground. They\u2019re overwhelmed with lingering student loans, struggling with the high cost of rent and health care relative to income, and having difficulty finding decent-paying jobs in their chosen field. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">PNC\u2019s Millennials &amp; Investing survey discovered that only 81% of millennials have full-time jobs.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>And the amount of expenses parents are paying for adult children isn\u2019t exactly pocket change \u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">An average of $7,000 a year. <\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>Where Is That Money Going?<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">You might think that all this parental support goes towards student loan debt since the media has named it a national crisis. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Not so. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">In fact: <\/span><\/p>\n<ul class=\"ul1\">\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">60% of parents buy all or some of their kids\u2019 groceries<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">54% pay for all or part of cell phone service<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">47% foot the bill on car expenses<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">44% pay for adult kids\u2019 vacation<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">36% cover rent or mortgage<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">27% pay student loans<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2 class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>Not Doing Your Kids or Yourself Any Favors<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Sure, you want to help your kids get a head start on life. And it may have begun with a small amount, such as part of a monthly cell bill or rent payment, while in school. But post-college it might have morphed into a mortgage down payment in a trendy neighborhood or eating sushi three times a week. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">If that sums it up, you\u2019re creating an economic lifestyle that your children might not be able to maintain. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">So you need to consider setting boundaries and providing guidance on how to manage money. Otherwise, how will they ever achieve independence and self-sufficiency?<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">The $7,000 cited above is money that isn\u2019t going into your retirement account, such as a 401(k). Assuming a 7% annual average before-tax return $7,000 invested each year could grow to almost $97,000 in 10 years. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">And who couldn\u2019t use another 97 grand by the time they retire? <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Even if you are well-heeled, you may be doing more harm than good to their financial and physical well-being. <\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>5 Steps To Cutting The Parental-unit Welfare Cord<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">When it comes to money and emotions it\u2019s tough to make decisions that are in our best interest. So here are five steps that can make the job much easier\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p1\"><b>1. Make a List.<\/b><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Go through your checkbook or money management program for the past year or so and make a list of what you\u2019ve been paying for. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Be sure to include hidden expenses such as health insurance, car insurance, job-hunting, and car repairs. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">You may be shocked. <\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>2. When Is Enough Enough?<\/b><\/span><b> <\/b><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Think about what you rationally want to continue to pay and for how long. <\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>3. Print It and Review It With Your Child.<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">He\/She might not realize how much you\u2019re actually spending to keep him\/her afloat. Show them the numbers so they can see how the money you\u2019re shelling out for their expenses will impact your retirement. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">This step may help remove some the guilt when you move to step four.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>4. Come to an Agreement. <\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Find a common ground about who will pay which expenses over the next three months. You might want to use a highlighter to mark those that the two of you agreed they will start paying. <\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>5. Review the Agreement in Three Months. <\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">You might have to make adjustments if they gets a job and can start paying more of their expenses, or goes back to school. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">There\u2019s a reason flight attendants tell you, \u201cPut your oxygen mask on first before helping others.\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">The same goes for helping your kids \u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">And it\u2019s not just about the money. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">One of a parent\u2019s jobs is to prepare children to become self-sufficient \u2026 giving them their wings. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">How quickly you give them the tools to do so is up to you. They\u2019ll figure it out \u2026 they\u2019ll buy something cheaper or do without.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Struggle and failure is powerful teacher when it comes to becoming financially independent. By experiencing the tougher spots of life, kids can become better able of thriving in the real world on their own. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">There is a fine line between supporting and enabling your adult child. Don\u2019t rob them of the opportunity to feel good about themselves. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">On top of that, your retirement dream will be that much closer to becoming a reality.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>To a richer life,<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"align-none\" src=\"https:\/\/duip7hn7nchpo.cloudfront.net\/signature-nilus-mattive.png\" alt=\"Nilus Mattive\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Nilus Mattive<br \/>\nEditor, <i>The Rich Life Roadmap<\/i><\/p>\n<p>The post <a rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/dailyreckoning.com\/5-steps-to-cutting-the-parental-welfare-cord\/\">5 Steps to Cutting the Parental Welfare Cord<\/a> appeared first on <a rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/dailyreckoning.com\/\">Daily Reckoning<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This post <a rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/dailyreckoning.com\/5-steps-to-cutting-the-parental-welfare-cord\/\">5 Steps to Cutting the Parental Welfare Cord<\/a> appeared first on <a rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/dailyreckoning.com\/\">Daily Reckoning<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Today we I talk about cutting the parental welfare cord&#8230; PNC&rsquo;s Millennials &amp; Investing survey discovered that only 81% of millennials have full-time jobs. And the amount of expenses parents are paying for adult children isn&rsquo;t exactly pocket change&hellip; An average of $7,000 a year.<\/p>\n<p>The post <a rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/dailyreckoning.com\/5-steps-to-cutting-the-parental-welfare-cord\/\">5 Steps to Cutting the Parental Welfare Cord<\/a> appeared first on <a rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/dailyreckoning.com\/\">Daily Reckoning<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":55,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[2294,366,2295,2296,1813,923,2297],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/juniorminingnews.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1109875"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/juniorminingnews.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/juniorminingnews.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/juniorminingnews.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/55"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/juniorminingnews.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1109875"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/juniorminingnews.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1109875\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1109876,"href":"https:\/\/juniorminingnews.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1109875\/revisions\/1109876"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/juniorminingnews.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1109875"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/juniorminingnews.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1109875"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/juniorminingnews.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1109875"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}